Antara Sabar dan Mengeluh
Hadith:
Sabda Rasulullah SAW yang bermaksud:
”Sesungguhnya orang mukmin akan menerima tekanan hidup kerana tidak ada satu bencana sama ada kerana terkena duri atau yang lebih besar, tidak juga ketakutan melainkan Allah akan mengangkat darjatnya satu darjat dan menghapuskan satu kesalahan dengan kesabarannya menghadapi bencana dan kesusahan tersebut.”
Riwayat al-Hakim
Huraian
1. Tribulasi atau ujian adalah seiringan dengan perjuangan. Oleh itu ia tetap memerlukan bekalan iman, sabar dan istiqamah.
2. Ujian dijadikan Tuhan untuk mengukur sama ada keimanan seseorang itu kepada Allah dan seluruh ajaranNya adalah benar dan diikuti oleh perlakuan dan tindakan atau hanya terhenti setakat di mulut sahaja.
3. Umat Islam akan diuji dengan lima perkara iaitu saudara seagama yang sentiasa dengki terhadapnya, orang munafiq yang sentiasa membencinya, orang kafir yang sentiasa memeranginya, syaitan yang sentiasa berusaha menyesatkannya dan bisikan hawa nafsu yang sentiasa menggoncang keimanannya. Semuanya ini menuntut kesabaran dan di dalamnya terdapat ganjaran pahala yang besar daripada Allah SWT.
4. Lawan bagi sabar adalah mengeluh dan ia merupakan perbuatan yang amat dilarang oleh agama kerana dengan mengeluh akan membuatkan semangat menjadi lemah dan terbitnya perasaan kecewa dan putus asa sedangkan Allah SWT berfirman dengan maksudnya:”Sesungguhnya tiap-tiap kesukaran disertai kemudahan.” (al-Insyirah:6)
5. Tanpa masalah atau ujian tidak akan wujud kematangan kerana pengalaman dalam menyelesaikan masalah adalah guru terbaik dalam menjamin kejayaan dalam kehidupan.
Sumber : Jabatan Kemajuan Islam Malaysia
Ard 3am, was awoken by the chappee's voice meowing outside our room door. i know he'll only make noise if he lost sight of his "sister", coz the other time it happened, turtle had made herself all cosy and comfortable in one of the cabinet in the kitchen and chappee couldn't find her and thus starts making noise. so i figure out this time, maybe she had gone and snuggle up somewhere again and chapee couldn't find her again. told chappee to "sshhhh" from inside the room..tapi makin kuat plak dia bising after hearing my voice. so i kept quiet. but could hardly hv a good sleep with the meowing continuing on and off till morning. tak give up tau si chappee ni. i shld have gone out to check and find where turtle had snuggled up to tis time but somehow ntahlah i was a bit scared i think, to go out alone into the dark living room at 3am..so i just tolerated chappee's meows till morning. finally when morning came, when i open the door, he's still there in front of the door, sweetie was nowhere insight as expected. just as i was abt to go check if she had snuggle up in the cabinet again, i heard a faint meow coming in from the other room, i opened the door and there she was terkunci dalam bilik sebelah!!! padahal i remembered both the doors were already closed before i went to sleep that nite. or did my mind played tricks on me. hmm..no wonder chappee was making so much noise.
Its 5 more mins to 6pm now, cuaca pon dah gulap ni..and i don't have a brolly with me. tink i'm going to start packing soon and cabut b4 it starts pouring.
Got for mummy something i really like myself as Mother's Day's gift :P Wasn't sure if she'll like what i chose for her and told her i'll change it if it doesn't suit her. But i was glad when i saw her beaming away as she opened the gift and showed dad what i got for her :)
This is her sitting smack in front of my face and staring at me..something that she enjoys doing from time to time..look at her sharp olive green eyes...awww.."mummy" loves keromosing ur adorable face too!
On another note, i'm still in melancholic mood. Sorry for the depressing entries lately. Can't help it lah. At times, all these seems surreal. Life is so unpredictable. Just like Alanis Morissette's Ironic lyrics goes "Well life has a funny way of sneaking up on you when you think everything's okay and everything's going right...And life has a funny way of helping you out when you think everything's gone wrong and everything blows up in your face"So true kan?.
A golden phrase from a wise young lady which i'd like to share with everyone:
The best thing is to let HIM decide what's best for you coz only HE has the best knowledge of the future and what is best for us, HIS creations.
Rasulullah SAW bersabda:
"Barangsiapa yang Allah mahukan kebaikan untuknya, nescaya Dia akan mengujinya dengan kesusahan" (Al-Bukhari)
"Sesungguhnya besar ganjaran adalah dengan besarnya ujian. Sesungguhnya Allah jika Dia mengasihi sesuatu kaum, nescaya mereka akan diuji dengan ujian. Barangsiapa yang redha maka baginya keredhaan Allah. Barangsiapa yang tidak bersabar, nescaya Allah juga tidak akan bersabar dengan mereka!" (At-Tirmizi & Ibn Majah)